Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “If a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until the morning.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3237, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1436
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
Imam al-Buhuti commented, “It is the right of a husband to enjoy his wife at any time, regardless of her situation… as long as he does not distract her from her obligations or harm her. In that case, he may not enjoy her because that is not living with them honorably. If he does not distract her from those duties, or harm her, then he may enjoy her.”
Source: Kashāf al-Qinā’ 5/188
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ
3237 صحيح البخاري كتاب بدء الخلق باب ذكر الملائكة
1436 صحيح مسلم كتاب النكاح باب تحريم امتناعها من فراش زوجها
قال البهوتي وَلِلزَّوْجِ الِاسْتِمْتَاعُ بِزَوْجَتِهِ كُلَّ وَقْتٍ عَلَى أَيِّ صِفَةٍ كَانَتْ … مَا لَمْ يُشْغِلْهَا عَنْ الْفَرَائِضِ أَوْ يَضُرُّهَا فَلَيْسَ لَهُ الِاسْتِمْتَاعُ بِهَا إذَنْ لِأَنَّ ذَلِكَ لَيْسَ مِنْ الْمُعَاشَرَةِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَحَيْثُ لَمْ يَشْغَلْهَا عَنْ ذَلِكَ وَلَمْ يَضُرُّهَا فَلَهُ الِاسْتِمْتَاعُ
5/188 كشاف القناع عن متن الإقناع
