{"id":23925,"date":"2016-10-27T13:07:24","date_gmt":"2016-10-27T09:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abuaminaelias.com\/dailyhadithonline\/?p=23925"},"modified":"2019-05-24T17:03:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-24T13:03:55","slug":"hasan-love-hate-moderation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.abuaminaelias.com\/dailyhadithonline\/2016\/10\/27\/hasan-love-hate-moderation\/","title":{"rendered":"Hasan on Moderation: Be balanced in your love, hatred for others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yahya ibn al-Mukhtar reported: Hasan al-Basri, may Allah have mercy on him, said, \u201cLove others moderately and hate others moderately. Some people were extreme in their love of others and were destroyed by it, and some people were extreme in their hatred of others and were destroyed by it. Do not be extreme in your love and do not be extreme in your hatred. Whoever finds his brother sinning beneath a veil should not expose him. 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